Sex & Intimacy

12 Steps to Properly Go Down on a Woman

This is a step-by-step guide that includes expert tips like writing your A, B, C’s in her vagina until she orgasms.

Buckle up for a steamy journey into the world of going down on a woman! In this blog, we’re delving into the sultry art of pleasuring your partner with 12 expert-approved steps to rock her world. Get ready to level up your oral game like a true pleasure ninja!

No more guesswork or fumbling in the dark, my friends. We’re spilling the beans on everything you need to know – from tantalizing techniques to building anticipation and hitting all the right spots. Consider this your ultimate guide to becoming a master of oral pleasure! Eat your woman out like a pro with these simple tips. 

Step 1: Start with the inner thigh. You want to kiss and lick here to increase the anticipation. Use tongue and french kiss this area to tease what you’ll do next. 

Step 2: Next, kiss around her outer lips (labia majora) and use plenty of tongue. 

Step 3: Begin to suck on her outer lips gently. 

Step 4: Now, spread her outer lips and lick from the vaginal opening to her clitoris. Nestle your face inside her lips, so she knows you care. Move your tongue in an oval shape and lick her vulva in long lapping motions. (To clarify, the vulva is the whole external part of the female genitalia, including the labia majora, labia minora (inner lips), and clitoris (pea-size bean at the top).

Step 5: Write half of the alphabet across her vulva with your tongue. Alternate pressure as you lick and suck.

Step 6: Simultaneously, slide your hand’s middle and forefinger inside the vagina and move them in a “come hither” motion with your palm face up. Push gently in the outer third of the vagina’s top region, between the vaginal opening and the cervix. Once you’ve run across a small, puffy, ridged patch of skin, you’ve most likely found her G-spot. 

Step 7: While still licking her vulva, stroke the G-spot with your fingers in a circular or “windshield wiper” motion.

Step 8: Keep stimulating the G-Spot, but move your tongue to focus on the clitoris. Make your tongue move from side to side, up and down, and around.

Step 9: Now, write the other half of the alphabet across her vulva with your tongue. 

Step 10: Take your fingers out of her vagina, and insert your tongue into her vaginal opening with quick pointy motions licking inside as far as you can. Also, try lapping your tongue in a circular motion while it is inside. 

Step 11: Simultaneously, stroke her perineum (the landing strip between the anus and vaginal opening) while your tongue is inside. 

Step 12: At this point, she should have already orgasmed. If she is on the verge of an orgasm, make your lips into an O-shape and suck gently on her clitoris while you return to inserting your fingers in her vaginal opening.


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